Dear Jeiry and Gonzo,

Tengo un problemita. I am about to turn 21 on the 26th of this month...i met this guy and he is so romantic and sweet and I even opened up to him about some very personal things that have occurred in my life, we've been hitting it off great. I met him @ a salsa club here in San Antonio, TX.  He said he was 28 @ the time. Here we are 3wks later & I find out he's 35..that’s a huge age diff. I swear he looks 28ish. Este hombre tiene cara de bebe, but a beautiful heart and look on life.  Should I stay or should I go?  He's 14yrs older than me!! :-/

Sincerely,

Problemita

Dear Jeiry and Gonzo,

Ay Dios mio! do I have a dilemma for you!

I am currently 'talking to' (involved with) a young man who lives in another state. We met last year, and it began as a fling, except for the fact that he has most, if not all, of the characteristics and qualities I would want in a man. We both now have greater feelings for one another. In May, he asked me to be his girlfriend, but I did not think that would be a good idea then.

Recently, however, we have professed to one another that we do, in fact, love each other (!!!) and we are no longer talking to/ dating other people. I would now like to be his girlfriend, to make it official and be commited to him, however he is unsure. Although he claims that I am
his ideal girl and that he cares for me just as much as I care for him, he says he needs to think about it--the distance and how this may affect us.

Dear Jeiry and Gonzo,

I'm being dating this SWAT officer for a year, Were had problem in the past, He disappear on me for a couple month, He CLAIM he couldn't take me calling him name, and he thought I had someone else, after he reappear, within a month he text me saying "He didn't THINK we should see each other again" He also claim it was selfish. I'm confuse with this man, He has no kids, never being married, his not the player type, he has low-self esteem, his 41 year old. I'm only 32. Why reappear, just to broke my heart. Everything was going fine.

Confused Carmen

Dear Jeiry and Gonzo,

I am a 21 year old woman and I met a 23 year old man 6 months ago on the net. We talk every day on cam and phone and we have even seen each others families. And we just tell each other everything. Well you see thing is, I have fallen in love with him. Is that normal?

Normal Love